Here are the common indicators of interest to look out for. As a way of ending the conversation on a high note.
As obvious as some may seem, it’s easy to forget when you’re in the moment: But if a girl’s investment in the conversation is low – she’s not laughing at your jokes or giving you her full attention, then it’s probably best to end the conversation and walk away. It’s better to cut the conversation short than drag it out. Say “It was great bumping into you, but I have to get going…. it’d be cool to meet up again sometime” Never leave the interaction empty handed.
This group interview is chock full of expert advice from 32 of planet earth’s best dating coaches and pickup artists.
But first things first, it’s important we cover the core principles of pickup that form the foundation to all of this. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way to master pickup in a short space of time) Ok lets get started! Unless you want to get rudely rejected, start with welcoming environments that allow natural conversation to flow – cafes, bars, clubs, house parties, sports events, and shopping centres are all great locations to find women to talk to. If you can pick up girls in bars and clubs there’s no reason you can’t get a girls number whilst ordering a flat white on your morning commute to work.
When you find a girl you want to approach, always assess the situation first.
And with this you’ve got to expect to be rejected from time to time. But it’s how you handle rejection that will define your success with picking up women.
If you can bounce back from your failures, learn from your mistakes and keep practicing, you’ll slowly become desensitized to the fear of rejection and become unstoppable with women.
If you interrupt someone in a fluster, don’t be surprised if you get face palmed. Women are primarily attracted to social power and confidence over everything. So if you can learn to handle this pressure, and brazenly approach women like it’s no biggy, you are 90% of the way over the finish line. And it’s not necessarily what you say, it’s more about your delivery. To open up your body language – smile, hold a wide stance, and turn your body to face her when talking. If you end up dating and realising she’s your dream girl, you’re gonna have to fess up… As confusing as gender roles appear to be in 2017, one thing with dating remains unchanged – it’s the man’s job to make the first move.
If you appear confident in your approach and be direct with your intentions you’ll have no problem picking up girls. Chatting up girls can be the most nerve racking experiences imaginable. Confidence is largely perceived non verbally, so it’s important you communicate this through your body language and voice tonality. It will only make a girl anxious and wanting to end the conversation. Whether you’re meeting a girl or going in for the kiss, YOU have to be the one pulling the trigger. You must be bold and prepared to put your neck on the line for women.
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If she replies to your question with “I’m heading to London”, try and think up something interesting or witty to say about London in reply. Another example is to reply to a serious question with a stupid answer.
So if a girl asks what you do for work, reply with “I was put on this planet to find you, job done”. Your honesty will show you have a backbone and are fearless in the face of rejection.
The ultimate goal of pick up is to ‘close the deal’ in whatever shape or form that may be.